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What is a perfect friendship?





Whether you thrive in a relatively small friend group or you have just one soul mate, you must acknowledge that our social relationships at times are quite hardly understandable. For the youth are struggling with various issues in terms of friendship, although these problems seem to be fleeting and resoluble, numerous friendships were spoiled due to these conflicts.

I thought that these questions couldn’t appear in a well-trodden friendship. However, I had been hanging out with my best friend for 1 year when these particular problems came. The question arises, should we save a fellowship affected by issues? In my opinion, it fairly depends on the circumstances, for while in a friend group which consists a relatively vast number of people, they have to deal with wholly different problems, such as disagreement among the members, or external issues, such as lack of time.

Various research claimed that most friendships fell apart, because the members had no time for a meet.  In my opinion it is easier to deal with friendships of two than with big groups. For in these cases if a problem appears, it is less complicated to resolve.

In the majority of cases, if the necessary attention is given to the needs of the other side, the wrinkle of the problem will be smoothed out, without difficulties. You must keep in mind that although you are best friends, the other person also has their own needs and thoughts and he or she is not your clone, so you should accept the things in which you are different.

So, in conclusion, there are no difficulties-free friendships, and  there is a various range of problems, which can affect your relationships, but if you turn to the other with patience and acceptance, your relation may last longer.



Orbán Laczó Iván   X. H

 
 
 

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